in their look, in their way of dancing, of caring, of loving.The arguments can also be more intense, but the relationship is rarely flat, boring, and life with a Latina can be charming and addictive.

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Many don’t drink alcohol, and if you try to speak to them, asking them what they do in life etc., they won’t be much interested to chat with you as… Furthermore, women that go to nightclubs normally go in groups and there will typically be some Colombian men in these groups.

Penetrating these groups can be difficult and you will need some Spanish.

But meeting in person can be more difficult than online as you can’t hide behind a screen, it’s more ballsy, but this is real life (WYSIWYG for my developer friends).

And if your relationship turns out to work, you will both feel relieved to not have met online when your family will ask you “So how did you meet? Also, keep in mind that women in Medellín (and the rest of Colombia) prefer to be approached by men. In general, Paisas are receptive and most are interested in talking to foreigners.

The culture here in Medellín makes it quite different than what you’re maybe used to.

For your convenience, I collected 11 Medellín dating tips to increase your chances to make a good impression with Medellín women, and also to avoid some frustrations during your first dates.If she loves wine, take her to a wine fair or a wine tasting; if she likes chocolate, buy her one; if she loves nature, invite her to a breathtaking lookout; if she wants to adopt a dog, send her a couple of options and go with her to see them.Trust me; this is the best way to make sure you have a second date and probably a lot more.Choosing sexy but not vulgar clothes, the right high-heels and purse that match them, and putting enough makeup to make them look pretty, but not to scare the prospect, may take longer than expected. A date is not a fixed interview and there’s nothing more unattractive than a monosyllabic man; after several tries with answers like “sí,” “no,” “nada,” and a lot of awkward silences, she will probably want to run away. A simple “Gracias por la compañía”, “La pasé muy bien”, or “Espero que se repita”, will open the doors for a second date, and if you’re lucky, her place for a glass of wine… As independent as women are today, we Colombian girls are used to the type of ‘gentleman’ who takes them home.Dropping her off or walking her home, doesn’t mean that she will have sex with you, but if you did a really good job, she might invite you for a glass of vino or a tinto (don’t get confused, they’re not the same thing for Colombians).She will love your charming accent and think you are the cutest for trying to speak her language.